But if someone isn’t adding value to your life, then maybe you should back off. If it’s someone you know and nothing seems to help, don’t hang out with them as much! If it’s someone on the internet, BLOCK EM! Everyone has good days and bad days. Even if you don’t know the person, maybe you can find something you relate to or a common interest.Īvoid them, stop hanging out with them, or just block them. So, try to take into consideration some of the good you see in that person. Other people might not see it the same way or be affected as much. What you’re seeing and hearing is your own perception. But, it’s important to take responsibility for how you react. Also, if there are multiple people hearing the negativity, you’ve got backup and can deal with it together. It’s a lot easier to go down a negative spiral when you’re one on one with someone. Being in a group can make a huge difference. So, simply asking “Hey, is everything ok?” or “Is there anything I can do to make you feel better” can make a huge difference. It’s their way of saying that they need attention or need a little bit of help. Often times, negative people are crying out for help. Try to find things that they can stay positive about. Keep it easy… talk about mutual friends, music, movies, pets, current events, etc. If someone is deeply rooted in their negativity, sometimes changing the subject helps. For instance… I know certain people who always complain when I ask them about work. A lot of time negative people are triggered by specific topics. So your friend (or not so friend) is on a negative bender. Not to mention it will keep your spirits up. By ignoring the negativity, you’re not letting them get what they want. Ever noticed how internet trolls just have a knack for continually arguing and turning any comment into something negative? Don’t engage. Or else you’re going to enter the ring with someone who won’t quit. You can try to give constructive comments, but after that, you have to back away. Even if you try to be rational, it’s likely to snowball into more negativity. Why? A lot of times they’re miserable and want you to be just as miserable (seems counterproductive right?).
#NO NEGATIVE NANCY FULL#
So, in a world full of negative, angry, pissed off people, how do you deal and not let their toxic vibes into your life? Easier said than done, but here are a few tips…ĩ times out of 10, negative people are looking for a reaction. It’s almost like negative people flock to Instagram, Twitter, Blogs, etc just to vent their negative vibes and take their personal issues out on strangers. With the internet being so life consuming, we’re all subject to a million Nancy’s. No matter how great things are, they’re sure to find a downside, an argument or complaint. We all know a Negative Nancy, someone who just sucks the fun out of every situation. A number of people mentioned dealing with negativity or negative friends.
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